Hurt by those close to us, as Jesus was

For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.
(Psalms 55:12-13)

1/ The experience of our Lord Jesus Christ
2/ Fellowship with the Lord in his sufferings
3/ The path of some of the Lord's people who have gone before us