chrisechols
Sep 24, 2025
Missing the point Part 1
I keep hearing this whole idea that we must not forgive anyone until "they" repent. It sounds tidy, even logical to some, but it does not sound like Jesus. If forgiveness only starts when someone else admits their fault, then they hold the keys to your heart. That is not the gospel. That is emotional jail time with the offender as the warden.
Look at what Jesus actually taught. In the Lord’s Prayer, He told us to forgive as we ask to be forgiven. No conditions, no footnotes. He told us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, not once they had apologized but while they were still sharpening their knives. On the cross, as nails pierced His hands, He prayed, “Father, forgive them.” Stephen copied his Lord with rocks crashing into his skull, praying for mercy on the men throwing them. And to Peter, who wanted a neat number to measure forgiveness, Jesus gave the absurd math of “seventy times seven.” That is not bookkeeping. That is grace on repeat.